the secret that hundreds of husbands are using...

To Give Their Wives Mind-Blowing Orgasms Every Single Time

ATTENTION: Married Men Who Feel Lost During Oral Sex…

The Minute-by-Minute Oral Sex System

…That Is Currently Being Used By An Underground Group Of Husbands

To Give Their Wives Consistent Orgasms (And Transform Their Entire Marriage In The Process)

From: Mel The Bedroom Strategy

Dear Friend,

Hey, I’m Mel.

I’m a female intimacy coach.

I’m the founder of The Bedroom Strategy.

I’m also a former “cold wife” who destroyed her own marriage because I couldn’t articulate what I needed sexually.

And I’ve now had the chance to help thousands of husbands to transform their sex lives with their wives… with a thing that we’re going to talk about today called “The Oral Sex Technique System.”

I’m the woman who teaches men what women actually want in bed...

And today, I’m going to show you…

The System...

That Is Currently Being Used By Men Just Like You To Give Their Wives Orgasms So Obvious You’ll Never Wonder If They’re Real Again!

And, I’m going to show you the journey of other men who were just like you, who felt completely lost during oral sex…and they now have a system.

They’ve changed their marriages FOREVER.

Men like Brian:

Brian is a husband who had been married for 3 years and had never made his wife orgasm from oral sex.

When he first came to me, he was using 2-3 random moves he’d stumbled onto over the years.

He’d go down on her hoping something would work.

She would politely tolerate it for 5-10 minutes, then redirect him to intercourse.

He felt like a failure.

He wanted to figure out,

“How Do I Actually Make Her ORGASM? How Do I Know What I’m Doing?”

So he found The Bedroom Strategy, and he learned about this system…and he took the exact minute-by-minute technique I’m about to show you, and started following it step-by-step...and while he doesn't kiss and tell...let's just say...he and his wife do not have the intimacy issue they once had. They actually BOTH enjoy sex now.

STORY #1: THE ORIGIN STORY

(How I Discovered This System)

Let me tell you a story about how I discovered this system…

I was a “cold wife.”

Low libido. Sexually unavailable. The wife who said “I’m tired” so many times my husband stopped asking.

Not because he was a bad husband.

Not because I didn’t love him.

But because I was trapped in shame about my own sexuality, and I didn’t know how to tell him what I needed.

And he didn’t know how to ask.

Because admitting you don’t know how to please your wife feels like admitting you’re not a real man.

So we suffered in silence.

And eventually, our marriage ended.

Here’s what I realized after my divorce…My ex-husband wasn’t a bad lover.

He just didn’t know the TECHNIQUE.

And I couldn’t explain it to him because I didn’t even know what I needed.

I just knew that what he was doing wasn’t working.

His tongue was all over the place (no consistent rhythm)
He’d change techniques right when I was getting close (killing my momentum)
He’d give up after 5-10 minutes (I needed 15-20 minimum)
He had no idea where to actually focus (random licking doesn’t work)

And honestly? It’s not his fault.

Nobody ever taught him.

Sex education showed him where babies come from.

Porn taught him aggressive techniques that don’t work on real women.

His friends lied about their skills because admitting incompetence feels emasculating.

So he was left to figure it out himself.

Flying blind. Hoping he accidentally stumbled onto something that worked.

That’s when I made a decision…

After my divorce, I became obsessed with understanding:

Why don’t women orgasm from oral sex? (even though most SHOULD)
What techniques actually work? (not theory—actual practice)
How can I teach men in a way that doesn’t shame them?

I spent years studying:

Female anatomy (the parts you can’t see that you’re actually stimulating)
Arousal research (why women need 15-20 minutes minimum)
Technique testing (what tongue patterns, pressures, and rhythms actually work)

And I developed The Oral Sex Technique System.

The exact minute-by-minute roadmap from 0 to orgasm.

Not vague advice like “communicate more.”

Not random tips like “try the alphabet technique.”

But a proven system that works for the vast majority of women.

And that system is what I’m

going to show you today.

STORY #2: THE VEHICLE STORY (How This System Transforms Everything)

Let me show you how this system actually works…

Most men approach oral sex like this:

Random licking with no clear plan
Changing techniques every 30 seconds hoping something works
Giving up after 5-10 minutes when she doesn’t orgasm
Wondering if she’s faking it or just tolerating it

This is what I call “Flying Blind.”

And it’s exhausting. For both of you.

But what if you had a SYSTEM?

What if you knew exactly what to do at minute 3 vs. minute 15?

What if you understood why she needs 20 minutes (not 5)?

What if you could read her body signals and know if you’re on the right track?

That’s what the Her Next Orgasm system gives you.

Here’s how it works:

THE 20-MINUTE TIMELINE:

Minutes 0-3: The Approach

(Building mental arousal) -

What you’re doing: Kissing her body, touching everywhere except genitals
What she’s experiencing: Blood flow starting, anticipation building
Your job: Get her MIND aroused before touching her body

Minutes 3-5: The First Kiss (Initial vulva contact) -

What you’re doing: Broad, soft licks across entire vulva
What she’s experiencing: Tissue beginning to engorge
Critical rule: NO direct clitoral stimulation yet

Minutes 5-8: The Clitoral Tease (Indirect stimulation) -

What you’re doing: Licking around (not on) the clitoris in circles
What she’s experiencing: Building desperation, wanting more
The secret: Create anticipation before direct contact

Minutes 8-12: The Clit Connection (Direct stimulation begins)

What you’re doing: Testing three patterns (vertical, horizontal, circular)
What she’s experiencing: Arousal climbing from 60% to 75%
Your mission: Find which pattern SHE prefers (not what you think)

Minutes 12-18: The Rhythm (Consistency phase)

What you’re doing: Using ONE winning pattern at 60 BPM
What she’s experiencing: Arousal building from 75% to 95%
CRITICAL RULE: Do NOT change rhythm when she moans

Minutes 18-20+: The Orgasm (Maintaining through climax)

What you’re doing: Exact same rhythm until she comes
What she’s experiencing: 95% → 100% → orgasm
After: Immediately go gentle (her clitoris becomes hypersensitive)

This is the VEHICLE.

This is the system that takes her from “not aroused” to “mind-blowing orgasm” in 15-20 minutes.

And when Chris used this system?

His wife had her first oral sex orgasm in 3 years.

When Robert used this system?

His wife went from avoiding it to requesting it.

Here’s what’s CRAZY about this…

Men are going from:

“I have no idea what I’m doing”

“I know exactly what to do at every stage”

…in less than 30 days.

Is this starting to make sense?

Let me show you exactly what you get inside this audiobook…

STORY #3: THE INTERNAL BELIEF STORY (Overcoming “I’m Not Good Enough”)

Now, I know what you might be thinking right now…

“This sounds great, Mel, but what if I’m just not good at this? What if my wife is different and this won’t work for her?”

Let me tell you about James M.

James came to me feeling like a complete failure.

He’d been married 2 years.

His wife had never orgasmed from oral sex.

Not once.

And James had convinced himself:

“I’m just not cut out for this. Some guys are good at it, some aren’t. I’m not.”

This is what I call the Internal Belief Problem.

You think the problem is YOU.

You think you’re inherently bad at oral sex.

You think some men are just naturally talented and others aren’t.

But here’s the truth James discovered…

You’re not bad at oral sex.

You just didn’t know the technique.

Think about it this way:

Are you bad at playing piano? (Or did you just never learn?)
Are you bad at speaking French? (Or did you just never study?)
Are you bad at coding? (Or did you just never receive training?)

You wouldn’t expect to be good at ANY skill without instruction.

So why do we expect men to be good at oral sex without any education?

When James learned this, everything changed for him.

He realized:

“It’s not that I’m inadequate. I just never had the instruction manual.”

So he studied the Her Next Orgasm system.

He learned the exact tongue techniques.

He practiced the 60 BPM rhythm (yes, with a metronome).

He understood the 20-minute timeline.

And 3 weeks later, his wife had her first oral sex orgasm.

James told me:

“I actually teared up. After so many years of feeling like a failure, I finally gave her what she’s been missing. And I realized… I just needed the right system.”

This is what happens when you break through the internal belief…

You stop thinking:

“I’m not good at this” -
“I’m just not talented” -
“Maybe I’m not meant to be a great lover”

And you start thinking:

“I can learn this skill”
“I just need the right instruction”
“Mastery is achievable”

And that shift? That changes EVERYTHING.

STORY #4: THE EXTERNAL BELIEF STORY (Overcoming “She’s Just Not Interested”)

Now you might be thinking…

“Okay Mel, but what if my wife just isn’t interested in oral sex? What if she has low libido? What if this still won’t work?”

Let me tell you about Kevin

Kevin came to me convinced:

“My wife just doesn’t like oral sex. She never has. She’s got low libido. There’s nothing I can do.”

Kevin’s wife would:

Make excuses to avoid it
Redirect him to intercourse after 5 minutes
Say “it’s okay, I’m fine” when he offered - Never initiate or request it

Kevin thought: “She’s just not into it. That’s who she is.”

This is what I call the External Belief Problem.

You think the problem is HER.

You think she:

Has low libido
Doesn’t like oral sex
Is just not a sexual person
Is broken somehow

But here’s what Kevin discovered…

His wife didn’t have low libido.

She had low interest in BAD oral sex.

When sex consistently ends without her orgasm, her body learns to avoid it.

When oral sex is:

Random licking with no clear technique
Inconsistent rhythm that never builds
Only 5-10 minutes (when she needs 15-20)
Focused on the wrong areas

Her body says: “Why bother? This doesn’t lead anywhere good.”

That’s not low libido. That’s logical avoidance.

So what happened when Kevin learned the actual technique?

When he:

Followed the 20-minute timeline
Used consistent rhythm at 60 BPM
Locked in the pattern that worked for HER
Actually gave her 20 minutes minimum

His wife went from avoiding oral sex to REQUESTING it.

Kevin told me:

“She doesn’t have low libido. She just wasn’t getting anything out of it before. Now she initiates because she knows I actually know what I’m doing. The problem wasn’t her. It was my technique.”

This is the external belief breakthrough…

You stop thinking:

“She’s not interested” -
“She has low libido” -
“She’s just not a sexual person”

And you start understanding:

“She’s not aroused because the technique isn’t working”
“She avoids it because it doesn’t lead to orgasm”
“Fix the quality, and her quantity of interest will skyrocket”

When you give her orgasms, she wants more sex.

It’s that simple.

THE FRAMEWORK REVIEW (What You’re Actually Getting)

Okay, let me review what I’ve just shown you…

THE PROBLEM:

You feel lost during oral sex (no clear roadmap)
You don’t know if you’re doing it right
Your wife rarely or never orgasms
You feel anxious, incompetent, rejected

THE FALSE BELIEFS:

“I’m just not good at this” (Internal)
“She has low libido” (External)
“Every woman is different so there’s no system”
“Communicate more” will solve it

THE REAL TRUTH:

You can learn this skill (it’s not talent, it’s technique)
She wants orgasms (she avoids bad sex, not sex itself)
There IS a proven system (the 20-minute timeline)
Specific technique beats vague communication

THE SOLUTION:

The Her Next Orgasm Audiobook System

The complete minute-by-minute guide that shows you:

The 20-Minute Timeline (what to do at every stage)
Tongue Techniques (exactly how to use it, and when and where)
The 60 BPM Rhythm Rule (why consistency beats creativity)
How to Read Her Body Signals (stop guessing, start knowing)
The 6 Mistakes That Kill Orgasms (and how to avoid them)
The Complete Oral Sex System (from 0-to-orgasm, step-by-step)

And here’s the best part…

This is an AUDIOBOOK.

Which means you can:

Listen while you drive to work
Listen while you work out
Listen while you’re doing chores
Master the technique on YOUR schedule

No awkward reading in bed.

No fumbling with a book in the moment.

Just education that fits your life.

THE STACK (Everything You Get When You Invest Today)

Okay, now that I’ve shown you WHY this works and HOW it transforms marriages…

Let me ask you a question:

Is it okay if I show you an offer I put together to help you master this system and finally give your wife the orgasms she deserves?

Here’s everything you get when you invest in Her Next Orgasm today:

COMPONENT #1: The Complete Audiobook (Value: $97)

Step-by-step oral sex mastery training
The 20-Minute Timeline (minute-by-minute breakdown)
The Anatomy Deep-Dive (what you’re actually stimulating) - The Exact Tongue Techniques (proven strokes that drive her crazy)
The Hand Coordination System (what to do with your fingers)
Reading Her Body Signals (good signs vs. warning signs)
The 6 Deadly Mistakes (that kill her orgasm)
The Complete Practice System (how to build stamina)

Value: $97

Let me ask you a question:

If all this audiobook would do is give your wife ONE real orgasm from oral sex…

Would it be worth $97?

What about if it gave her consistent orgasms for the rest of your marriage?

What about if it transformed your bedroom from dead to passionate?

What about if it made HER start initiating sex because she knows you know what you’re doing?

Would THAT be worth $97?

Of course it would.

But here’s what I’m going to do…

I had two options when pricing this offer:

Option 1: Make this the cheapest oral sex guide available and sell as many as possible (which wouldn’t allow me to provide ongoing support and community)

Option 2: Price it to where it requires a small investment but gives me resources to guarantee your success with ongoing updates, community support, and troubleshooting help

I chose Option 2.

Because I want you to succeed long-term.

Here’s What You’re Paying:

Not $97.

Not even $57.

Just $27

That’s it.

Click the button above to get INSTANT ACCESS to:

✓ The Complete Audiobook

Your Investment Today: $27

From here, you’re just a few clicks away from instant access to the system you need to finally give your wife consistent orgasms… starting RIGHT NOW!

BUT WAIT… LET ME MAKE THIS EVEN BETTER

THE 30-DAY “HER NEXT ORGASM” GUARANTEE

Here’s my guarantee:

Listen to the audiobook.

Follow the system for 30 days.

If you don’t feel dramatically more confident during oral sex…

If you don’t see your wife responding differently…

If you don’t give her at least ONE orgasm that you KNOW is real…

I’ll refund every penny. No questions asked.

You have 30 full days to decide if this works for you.

And here’s what’s crazy…

Most men see results in the FIRST WEEK.

Because when you follow a proven system instead of flying blind, everything changes fast.

But you have 30 days to be absolutely sure.

All the risk is on me.

THE CHOICE IS YOURS

30 days from now, you can be sitting exactly where you are now…

Still fumbling during oral sex.

Still wondering if she’s faking it.

Still feeling incompetent and rejected.

OR…

You can be the husband who:

✓ Knows exactly what to do at every minute

✓ Gives his wife orgasms she can’t fake

✓ Feels confident instead of anxious

✓ Has a wife who REQUESTS oral sex instead of avoiding it

Your choice.

$27. 30-Day Guarantee. Instant Access.

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ONE MORE THING…

Why You Should Act Today

I’m currently running this as a special launch price of $27.

The regular price for this audiobook will be $47.

If you wait, you’ll pay more and get less.

Plus, every day you wait is another day your wife goes without the pleasure she deserves.

Another day you feel incompetent.

Another day your marriage suffers.

Why wait?

COMMON QUESTIONS ANSWERED

Q: “Will this work for my wife? She’s different.”

A: While every woman has preferences, the foundational system (20-minute timeline, consistent rhythm, reading body signals) works for the vast majority of women. That’s why we include the technique library—so you can find what works for HER specifically.

Q: “What if I’m already pretty good at oral sex?”

A: Then you’ll become GREAT. Most men who think they’re “pretty good” are still missing key elements (like the 20-minute rule, or the consistency principle). This system takes you from good to masterful.

Q: “Is this just going to be awkward techniques that feel unnatural?”

A: No. This is exactly how natural oral sex should flow. The reason it feels revolutionary is because nobody ever taught you the actual progression. Once you learn it, it feels obvious.

Q: “What if my wife won’t let me try this on her?”

A: Don’t tell her you’re learning a system. Just start using better technique. She’ll notice the difference without you saying a word. (In fact, most wives ask “where did you learn that?” within the first week.)

Q: “How long until I see results?”

A: Most men see dramatic improvement in the first 1-2 sessions. Mastery takes practice, but competence happens fast when you have the right system.

Q: “Is this appropriate? Is it too graphic?”

A: This is real sex education for adults. Yes, it’s specific and detailed (because vague advice doesn’t help). But it’s educational, not pornographic. It’s the instruction manual you should have gotten decades ago.

Thanks for reading this letter and learning about this system.

I look forward to hearing about your success!

—Mel

Female Intimacy CoachThe Bedroom Strategy

P.S. 30 days from now, you can be sitting exactly where you are now…still fumbling, still wondering if she’s faking it, still feeling incompetent…

OR you can be the husband who knows exactly what he’s doing, gives his wife consistent orgasms, and has transformed his entire marriage.

Your choice.

P.P.S. This isn’t about ME. Whether or not you decide to get “Her Next Orgasm” won’t change my life one bit. But it will change YOUR life. This decision is about YOU. And your marriage. And the incredible transformation waiting for you and your wife. It all starts today…

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ABOUT THE AUTHOR:

I’m Mel, founder of The Bedroom Strategy.

I was once a “cold wife” who destroyed her own marriage because I was trapped in shame about my sexuality and couldn’t tell my husband what I needed.

Now I teach men what women can’t articulate: the actual techniques, timing, and systems that create consistent orgasms.

My mission: Give men the education they should’ve gotten decades ago, so their wives experience the pleasure they deserve, and marriages become passionate again.

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